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That Family♥  
(Rislin Love) 
(Liris Love) 
(Baby #3 Love) 
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Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Baby Rislin Arrival..
Heres more of Rislin Cute-ness overload.. I hope she grow up fast.. its so boring at home not able to take her out and all i do is stare at the com and latch her for milk, change her diapers.. cant wait time to pass!           
her sweet memory was written @ 11:38 AMLonnggg Posstt
Valentines day (14Feb) Was sleeping like a piggy with hubby that morning and previously i kept asking him what he got for me for V-Day. He said that pocket was tight so can only get budget one. I was guessing and hoping its flowers again! While i was sleeping, the item arrive, he got up and went out to take the thing while i was awoken by him getting out of bed. And my mum took the item wondering what it is and almost open up the card that is included inside. To my suprise or rather disappointment.. REALLY CHEAPO, budget until.... He got a pizza package for me and it includes one rose and two chocolates (the chocolates are really tiny). Maybe i should console myself that at least he give it some thought.. haha..  We then went out at around evening.. I brought Fei Fei(his bear) N Sang Por (my bear). Nickname of fatty and skinny.. Sang por went for a cotton filling job and became Fei Fei while his Fei Fei look very skinny next to my bear, must switch name already!heh I also bought new outfits for them. My bear got a ballerina outfit while his bear look shuai shuai in the Romeo Outfit.. I guess thats my V-day present to him since i cant think of anything to buy as i keep buying shirt and pants till sian.  David`s Birthday (15Feb) I was soooo bored on 14 Feb. I keep wanting to go prawning but nobody go with me. And hubby is a darn coward who doesnt dare to handle the live prawns as they wringle alot and with the pincers. (Actually im the 2nd coward too LOL) . And 15 feb was david`s birthday(hubby`s die hard friend) so i call him up and jio him for a session of prawning.. We went prawning at midnight and boy was it fun! I totally enjoyed myself ,the excitement of catching the prawns. I caught 3 prawns and David caught 0. Beginner`s luck totally is with me but not with David.. Muhahaha... Actually it was suppose to be distributed one for me, one for David, one for hubby. But Hubby doesnt like seafood much so in the end i had 2 prawns and David had one only.. Dont know need to wait how long to be able to prawn again after the arrival of my baby girl..  Went back home and slept till afternoon.. Went with hubby to fix computer at a client`s house... Then meet David again to go with him to simlim as hubby need a new powersupply.. He was so scare when he ferry me in his motor lol.. While we were riding as hes rather ahem big size and my protuding tummy.. His motor is just GN125 so its not very big either.. My tummy was pressing on his back and he got lots of kicks from my girl which he felt it! lol I guess my girl dont like him?haha.. Random Combination Hubby see that someone throw away this cute inflatable house which condition was 9.9/10 so he brought home saying that next time can give girl girl play.. but isnt it cute hee.. Wonder why would anyone wanna throw it away..hmm  simple vent. My in laws want me to get rid of the dogs just because i`m pregnant and said they were disgusting to live with the baby. And that im not listening to them to get rid of the dogs and causing problems for the baby like rashes etc.. And his 2nd bro say that his kid always used to kick their dog and get bad rashes and that i dont believe etc.. And the first bro even wanted to give me $1k each for each dog and to throw them from the highest floor(that means killing them) shocked.gif Can you imagine how horrified i was hearing them saying these.. In the end we got into a huge quarrel and he said he felt sorry for my baby rolleyes Thats it! Since they felt sorry for my baby, im never ever gonna let them see her again and to think i was so nice to even show my face at the renunion dinner and to let them choose my baby`s name. Now its all over.. Since i didnt depend on them on a single bit or anything, and all they know is to borrow $ from us and never return.. Only when we are rich, they are nice to us.. When we are going through financial problem, we are nothing.. what right they got on my BABY and DOGS since they dont even care...All they care is the grand child.. And they even want to plan my wedding OMG.. From A-Z is all they want.. I dont even have the choice to object. So thats it.. I`ll be shutting off from them.. Its my Wedding, not theirs..
her sweet memory was written @ 10:47 AMSunday, February 22, 2009
My Labour Story
It started out with a normal gynae appointment checkup and im like 37weeks 3 days? or is it 4 days.. Went to the clinic.. waited to see Dr Ang and did ultrascan on baby. Baby was 3.3kg and was in a good position for a 3d scan.. Did the 3d scan, gotten her picture and she looked so cute in it and was very worried on the size of the baby as usually babies above 3.5kg will have to go for C-section. Asked Dr Ang for his opinon if i induce. Dr Ang told me that baby weight is very good and im already 37weeks+ thus is not a problem if i induce.And if i induce, because he have spare pills so he will cover the charge of $100 per pill if i go to tmc to induce. That means my induction will be FOC. If inducing fails after 2 pills, its either i go for drip , if the drip doesnt work and i end up have c-section, the price will be like C-sec+Natural labour cost Or direct C-sec after 2 pills which means that only c-sec amount will be calculated. Dr Ang was very nice to explain to me in detail and told me to consider and let him know while we went for lunch. In the end, i decided to be induced as this pregnancy was too hard on me and its taking a physical and mentally strain on my body. We went back to the clinic and Dr Ang stuffed the pill deep inside and i waited a while before my contractions start.. Before stuffing in the pills, Dr Ang told me to trust him that he can get my gates to open as in cervix to open for a success.. He later told his nurse to do CTG for me and i had to lie still on my back.. And i have this problem throughout my whole pregnancy is that my back will have a very incredibly backache if i lie on my back.The nurse made me lie on my back for like 15mins? And im not allowed to lie on my side. My tears started filling up shortly as its even 1000x more painful than contractions.. Then she said, now you know the pain of being a mummy ar. Do you regret it.. Im like omg its the backache that is killing me and hubby explained then she understand.. lol. So i went home after that to bath before heading to the hospital and contractions started to be more constant. After doing registeration and warded. Me with my bear waiting for Rislin`s Arrival while hubby went and buy drinks.  My contractions was almost non existant at that point of time. At night, Dr Ang came to check on me and im only 1cm dilated. He stuffed a 2nd pill in and thats when the contractions become even more intense than he first did. At 10plus pm, i started to have intense contractions. I kept vomiting cause of the pain and started moaning a little.. I begged for pain killer from the nurse but they said that the contractions pain, no pain killer can curb it and only injection can help but only when its at the labour room.So i endured all the way till 1am, and the time seem to pass so slow and they wheeled me to observation ward. The nurse there checked my cervix and its still only 1cm dilated. It made me so worried. Im so scare of C-section. Im so scared to be cut up. The nurse was also very rude, as i was in pain, and with my backache problem i cant lie straight and she forced me to lie straight and scolded me a few times and she told me to took off the panties to check the cervix, i placed my panties on the floor and i got scolded for it.. Like what the xyz? Am i suppose to put it beside my face then? Meanwhile i keep on have the feeling to pass motion. I keep running in and out of the toilet wobbly as i was in pain and no matter how i force to pass motion. I just cant seem to get it out..Kinda gross i know. I was then wheeled back to my ward and as contractions gotten more and more intense, i started to moan and roll left and right flinging my self to the side ways. I pressed the bell and the nurse came in to bring me to labour ward. She wanted to help me up but i was in intense pain till i curled up at a side and with every contraction start, i fling myself right and left and only when contractions is not so bad, i quickly sit on to the wheelchair and she wheeled me to observation ward at 3am. On the way i keep vomitting. I felt so horrible. At observation ward, the rude nurse that attended to me previously checked my cervix again and i was finally 8cm dilated. she then did ctg for me again and pushed me to the labour ward. While pushing, i was so painful that i keep lifting up my leg and kicking as well as flinging myself to the sides, she kept scolding me and when i stable to just kicking, she put her items on my leg and i cant help kicking and moaning as the contractions were super intense. I go like oh my god oh my god.. Then she started scolding me and saying oh my god oh my god stop moving, all my things is dropping.. And everytime i lift up the leg, she slapped my leg down and the other nurse tell her to stop doing it and while wheeling me to labour ward, she cant get pass through a few bed, she forcefully pull my bed while cursing.. I didnt know what they are going to do to me till im at labour ward and i asked her if i can call my husband. She then scolded me saying that hes not going to make it and why didnt i tell her earlier. Me as a first time mum..How would i know what to expect? shortly after im in labour ward, she took her own sweet time to prepare the things and i started to scream in pain. I begged for injection or pain killer again then, she jab a jab at my butt. But guess it was too late, it wasnt taking any effect at all and she also passed me laughing gas but no matter how i inhale, i was feeling the full blast of the contractions. While waiting for them to do their things at their own pace, i was pushing and i just keep pushing all the way ignoring them to tell me to stop. Because it hurt so bad and i dont know what im doing, all i know is i want to get her out. Dr Ang soon arrived and told me that we need to get her out fast. Before i know it, i was snipped (episotomy) and baby was vaccuumed. They told me to push somemore and with a few pushes, Rislin is out.. They quickly put her in my arms and use the tube thingy to suck inside her mouth. They then take her away to clean up.. She came out at around 3.40am While waiting Dr Ang stitched me up till almost ending, i went with a OUCH. And he then jab me with a pain killer i think? And i didnt feel any pain when he continue stitching. But its very scary seeing him stitching and pulling the string infront of me and his face is splattered with my blood. Super horror movie.. Lol.. Me with Baby at the labour room.. Proud mummy.. Loved the feeling when i pushed and her head and shoulders came out follow by her body.. Felt a huge accomplishment after that.  Im wheeled into my ward shortly, i had to wait till 8 am till i finally see my little princess.. In my Ward with my Princess  Proud Mummy N Daddy  My Cute lil Angel asleep..  My first BreastFeeding..  2nd Day of me with her  Cutie her  Little Piggy sleeping beside me 
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