Im feeling random now so i shall do her milestones..
-Had her tummy time -Like to ooohh ehhh ahhhh -Like to scream at her top of her voice - Recongnise mummy - Smile to herself - Like to stare at mummy - Hates bath - Sleeps alot
-Loves bathing -Loves swimming -Likes to talk and babble -Loves sitting/carrying up right -Head 95% stable -Recognizes other people and places -Know how to fake crying and pretending. (suck her hand when i hit she will stop but once i turn my head, she will start again and once i see her, she will take out) -Love to suck her hand -Loves her Cot Mobile -Smile , Laugh and "Talk" in response -Able to raise her chest like "mini pull up" while on tummy -Roll over a side
her sweet memory was written @12:21 PM
hopeless
I guess majority SG teen mums are hopeless already.. I was blog hopping yesterday and see alot of teen mums blog.. There is one there act pai kia and going out everyday, wheres the baby? Naturally her responsibility become OTHERS responsibility.
A few like those gamers, i dont know how the hell they find the time to game, her baby is just 3mths and im sure not much difference from mine and i dont even have time to game now except for occasionally 10mins when hubby back home to help me pacify Rislin when she cries.So i presume must be.. MUMMY BABY CRY LIAO I PLAYING GAME.. Enuff said.
Another kind is leaving their not even 2months old baby with parents while she goes overseas with her husband? And keep in mind that shes only 17 or 18 with TWO kids. I mean your 1yr+ girl i understand.. But your not even 2months baby? Shouldnt you be giving her your best care and the best breast milk? And her husband is only going NS this year.. so i take it that her parents are full time paying for them both? Since your parents is still supporting you, shouldnt after your first kid you should be closing your legs?
Maybe i dont judge on the pay wise of her hubby but i cant even bear to leave my baby alone for 30mins.. How come she can go overseas when her baby is not even 2 months? And still got the cheek to say she misses them? And where is the best AS A MUM she should be doing?
Occasionally leaving your child with your mum to enjoy is ok.But most of the blogs im seeing, wa camwhore self, camwhore with sis, camwhore with frens. WHERE IS YOUR KID? Eaten by big legged monster ar -_- To me they are like 100% go out but only 10% or less bring kid along only.And some more power.. Baby sick still can go out. WOW.. Shouldnt you be taking care of your sick child instead and you can fan xing to go out while your child is sick?
Most of the teen mums which i blog hopped are VERY irresponsible i would say.. Not saying im a saint or what. But the baby is theirs, they born it, its THEIR responsibility.. Not others.. The only few responsible i would say is Amulet Mummy and a few others i didnt list.. But I applaud her courage and selfless as a mum.I find her respectable and is my "idol".
Another case of hopeless mum which i found from my friend` s friendster,I will not post her picture up even if i blurred it as respect. She was carrying her less than 4mths or 5mths the most baby in a arcade. The head is not even stable, and shes at a arcade where the noises is VERY LOUD.
So what is she doing there posing the picture so happily?To make her daughter ear deaf? Who will suffer if it affects her hearing..? The girl le, not the mum..
Another is a old people rant.. i know i will become old one day but they were abusing their rights.I was eating at food court and its crowded. I sat at a table, its a long table so they have 6 chairs. I sat the the most left, and leaving 2 seats on my right. Opposite me sits one lady at the most left and the space there even my hubby cant squeeze in and the other 2 chairs are vacant but because the other side is blocked and its close together the chairs, thus one cant even sit inside.
This old woman came and sit next to me without asking. Nvm, i gave her seat as i thought she only one person. She placed her handbag on the other chair beside me for hubby. I thinking nvm, later hubby come back tell her to move. She saw my hubby took food for me to eat and i started eating as i was too hungry.
Then her husband came. Sit at the seat where my hubby shud be sitting. Then i asked them erm where should my hubby be sitting if u sit there? The woman got the cheek to point the opposite seat. Then i asked her.. Dont you think the space is too small? Because that space is too narrow and small to even squeeze in unless hubby crawl to the other side =_=
Then she stood up and started shouting at me and say how can you say a old person(lao ren). Then say if u want the seat u shud have put something wad, u win la u win la.. Wa say until i in wrong and even the husband join in the shouting at me. And first place she didnt even ask before she sit? Secondly, she saw my hubby brought my food over and talking to me. Thirdly i win wad? Got $$ ar?
No, im not asking for bashing or bashing others.. just need to rant.. if its offends you just Alt+F4.. Or if you`re one of those mums above.. dont even bother bash me.. zz
Enough ranting and this is the false crying video i promised..
her sweet memory was written @11:05 AM
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
This post is way OVERDUE.. so much i wanna say, so much i wanna blog but just SO lazy.. =_=
Rislin is offically healthy.. Thank god.. No infection no nothing and her colic got better without medication and she managed to sleep through the night.. And im not pregnant with #2.. what a relief
On Friday i went out with lynette and its been so so so long since i had such great fun with a friend.. she also bought two clothes for Rislin and its so terribly cute. And rislin is the first baby that she can carry without the baby crying! haha!!
She went with me to hwa xia for baby`s weekly swim. And i swear i hate the auntie there.. The always friendly china salesgirl is not there as its her off day and she got transfered to another branch. I hope the auntie will not be there! Because Rislin whole night colic crying thus afternoon she was quite tired and she fell asleep in the pool refusing to wake up.
Then the stupid auntie keep on tell everyone to look at her sleeping embarrasing me. People were looking through the glass door and laugh. And she can even say, "Look people are laughing at her swimming" in chinese. I so hate the aunty for embarrasing me. At that point of time i was so fed up with the aunty. I cant wait to leave there.
After swimming my friend can even ask me. Why she serve the other 2 customers never serve us so much. Probarly cause i look so young and so cheapo compared to the other, one is a china mum and the other is a couple with a maid in uniform. Tsk.. i super hate the service.. If this week i go and still the same person, i wanna transfere to where the China staff is working..
Lol look at Rislin thighs..
On saturday, i brought Rislin to granny house.Look at her asleep in the cab hee. Ignore the i am a mt alvernia baby mittens.. my mum Kia Su wear on her.. And the mittens is freebie from my friend..
My grandma super love playing with her and i took some pictures and videos down.. This is her first grandchild.. so imagine how happy she is.. haha..
See my mum change shirt for Rislin she smile until liddat faint
This picture and video is of my Granny playing with her..
This video is my mum playing with her.
This is me playing with her.. though she sorta cry in the end but she never cry.. False crying.. -_- i will upload the video of her false cry at my next post.. i posted so many, lazy now lol
Hubby bathing the 2nd time for her already, lol
Her video of fascination with cot mobile
Her video of "playing" with rattle
Her video of her lifting her head
And lastly,cute her at KKH, grumpy when my mum tried to burp her LOL
her sweet memory was written @6:46 AM
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Ok.. My poor Rislin has colic now.. Sob.. Dont know why suddenly will get it.. I hope she can recover ASAP! This colic has messed up her sleeping shedule totally.. Now she sleeps in the morning and active at night though i ignore her at night hoping to let her sleep since no one entertain her. But because of this colic, she keep crying at night too. And i keep getting blamed by my mum saying its cause of my breast milk. Everything also my fault.. Everything rislin has also my breastmilk fault, my fault.. im so damn sick of it!
Today brought her to KK to see doc as my mum feel that she yesterday cry till very jialat. And only yest then realize my "pain". Doc took her urine to test and got high white blood cells inside. And took for 2nd test and tested that has contamination but her white blood cell count is still high. So will have to take another test again and cause hubby today too tired thus will need to get him to bring the urnie sample to them.
Hais i hope her crying of discomfort is just this urine infection problem if have.. So its easier to solve it once and for all although need to admit her. sighs..My nipples is RED and sore now cause she keep on want to suck suck suck.. now i cant differentiate her comfort sucking and drinking liao..
Shes 2mths 5days old weighing a whopping 5.83kg
And recently i`ve been feeling unwell like when i had Rislin.. Hope that its either due to the fact that im lack of sleep or pregnant again although took precautions... Hope wont be so heng.. I hope its just that im over exhausted cause of her colic.
I also bought a Medela PIS Original from a seller and shes so nice to deliver to hubby at amk and helped me to buy 2 new tubing from mums and babes.. shes so nice really.. I appreciate alot.. I hope everything is ok =D
Anyway remember the big bag of clothes that i gotten from a friend which i said alot of cute clothes.. there is also a few cute hat which look like victoria style doll.. See so cute on her.. my mum holding her though lol
And shes so fascinated by the cot mobile i hang on her cot now..
Trying to introduce pacifier to her so my nipples wont have to suffer but failed sadly..
Her trying to poo..
Holding head high high while belly time
Other cute pics
her sweet memory was written @12:36 PM
Saturday, April 18, 2009
Loot from Going out
Ok and i spend alot again, 1 day after my loot from Old Navy N Gap.. I swear im such a spendthrift sighs..
I went out with shyan and shyan`s mum.. Shyan was so cute i swear.. so white and beautiful just like a snow white..And before that i went to kiddy palace to buy for rislin somethings as i was looking for baby tights..
At fitting room bf her.. so warm and stuffy inside..
Firstly, a romper dress for her, was on offer at only $10!
And a Cot mobile.. (and so sway it spoiled so i changed a new one which put battery one) And 2 headband for my girl bought at PS mothercare
Then, i went to PS to meet shyan and her mummy.. And i saw the shoe that i wanted so long was on offer there.. Retail price $30+ whilst offer only $16.. So i quickly grabbed it.. So cute isnt it..
And i signed up package with Hwa Xia swimming for Rislin, Another $200+ fly.. But here is the free gifts.. (so cheapo i feel)
Another visit to daiso and got a dog leash for ah boy, 2 spray can for hubby as he want to spray his motor to white as well as scrapbooking paper from made of love
And yesterday i went and get alot of baby clothes and items from mummy lydia and another friend.. Imagine a Mazda2 was fully loaded with all the items.. can you imagine how much it is?
Here is one of the bag of clothes.. See how scary it is. And i got at least 5 bags of this and a highchair cum rocker, sarong and car seat.
I still love to bf my girl..now shes like so big already. she start to extend out of my lap haha..
My two babies
her sweet memory was written @11:58 AM
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
loot from gap
My Loot from Old Navy and Gap
Pink pants for 3-6mths n blue one for 6-12mths
Romper at only $2.99USD as well as Pants and skirt for 6-12mths
2x Baby tights, one for 0-6mths one for 6-12mths
One flip flop 3-6mths
And one last piece of shirt for myself heh..
Spent wayyyyyyy too much but wad spent is already spent =x And most is for 6-12mths, so not so heartpain...
her sweet memory was written @3:31 PM
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Cranky Baby
I finally found the cause of my cranky baby refusing to latch at the side. Seems that its because of my milk flow is too slow for her.. Reading from this site
But whats puzzling is that im exclusively breastfeeding so the conclusion is not enough liquid or baby never latch well?? But since birth Rislin got this symptom as stated in the site:
Sucks and swallows well for a few minutes and then seems lazy.
Wants to suck right after feeding.
Would suck any time.
Feeds are constantly.
Eyes shut. Signs of REM sleep. Still firmly attached to the breast.
Eyes wide open. Looks worried. Little effort to suckle. Long pauses. (but her eyes close most of the time)
only recently i face this problem of: Pulls off breast, screaming. Flails arms. Attempts to relatch.
So i think my solution now is either getting a lactation consultant or take fenugreek to increase my supply.But always when she unlatch away i will go press the nipples and it seems like there is still alot of milk..
Major headache on what to do sigh..I dont want to give up.. I persevere so far with cracked, sore, bleeding and even nippple skin peel till its all raw pink.sigh...
Anyway moving on.. 2days ago went to the jurong ntuc for about 2hours to walk for a bit. And bought quite alot of things back but we`re narrowing down to Rislin`s items.. Bought her toys, 2 for $20.. considered cheap imo but i cant justify the price 3 tiny thing for $10..
And bought her a romper and a dress..
When i got home my sweetie is still awake so i changed for her into the newly bought romper.. she looks so sweet in it.. I also bought a few, no i should change to alot of clothes for her from Old Navy & Gap from US. And i bought only one miserable piece for myself. And i spend like $120+ on that solely.. -gasp- But take it as that she has not much clothes ba cause i bought de is for 6-12mths..
Anyway heres her wearing the cute romper.
Its like 5am now and shes so awake, she seems to have a habit of waking up at 4am or 5am then sleep back a while later.. hmm.. that sounds like a potential problem..
And she recently like to grab things.. Theres once where she grab the pillow and she cover the pillow over her and she started crying.. haha my silly girl..
A few pics of me and my darling
i love love nursing her... i wouldn`t give her up for the world.
And to end off, this pictures were taken a few minutes ago with one of her tiny toy..
her sweet memory was written @2:09 PM
Saturday, April 11, 2009
Cute-Ness Overload
Yay to me losing lots of weight till i can get back my face shape lol! Hubby brought back a cute lady bug balloon a few days ago saying his manager just pass to him and say its for your girl. It is sooo cute, so rislin took a few pics with it..
Her expression is always so priceless ha!
This look like shes luring you to her lol..
I brought her to vivo today to stock up on her diapers and to buy her some toys. Intially didnt see any toy suitable for her.. Hubby hiam this and that -.- Say so small no need toy etc when it will help in her developement. So in the end after eating at superdog, we walked another round at mothercare as toy r us is closed with police standing outside and we saw a civil defence officer walked in. I think that maybe a pregnant lady is going to give birth inside..
Can you imagine location of birth is Toys R Us lol... Anyway back to topic.. Just one small little butterfly i bought for her at mother care cost me a whopping $15.95.. -.- Seriously kid`s toys are over priced.. im protesting!
Pics of her with her darn expensive butterfly
Pictures of her drinking milk while clutching onto her butterfly
And i also bought two cheap nursing tee at only $10 as its on clearance sales but a little tight for me.. Not sure to sell off or not.
And finally a decent picture of me and Rislin not looking like a pig lol
She has been so cranky these few days that im not able to get a rest as hubby can ignore her cry to continue sleeping yet i need to wake up to tend to her, give her comfort sucking, milk etc.. sighs.. I hope its just growth spurt..
To end off this post, a video of her coo-ing i think but not sure if its considered as coo-ing.. Any mummies able to comfirm?
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