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Tuesday, April 7, 2009
1 mth old
The night before i told my mum i may need to borrow $100 from her first as i scare i not enough to pay as i forgot to withdraw and i plan to bring in alot of new goods and only doing the payment and noon thus i dont know the amount i need to pay as exchange rate of items keep going up and down.
And she grumble that i do everything last min etc. So i told her to keep the $. And forget it, i dont need her money. Next morning i couldnt wake up in time and she paid. When i wanted to bring 5-6 boxes to pray. She say that im taking her $ to throw. Its like, you want others to respect your religon why cant you respect others?
I was so fed up and angry till i immediately ibanking transfere back to her. Since i take her $ to throw, nvm.. I throw my own $.. happy lorh.. And note that all her 1st mth thing i pay hor. Not hubby, not a single cent from him. Read on to see how useless he is.
It was afternoon when we went to send her 1st mth package box which has ang ku kueh,red eggs N marble cake.Intially hubby said to pass them at their factory only. In the end we end up going up. While walking up i told him that i dont want them to touch her especially your step mum due to the humilation they did to me years ago and since they feel sorry for my girl then they shouldnt touch. Then he said he wont want either as shes so dirty with perspire etc.
When we went up she asked if he know that he need to pray father side ancestor and asked if he done it.When he denied she said words like i know you go pray your mum but after all this is your side. There dont really need to pray etc. Totally showing disrespect to his mum side. And i dont even know how he could stand his mum side being critised. Even i was rolling my eyes the whole time. Since he didnt stand up at his mum side then its his matter. I learnt not to be righteous from him.
So he pray there and then call me over. Intitally his step mum was holding two joss stick and huby tell me pass baby to him and i thought that the joss stick is for me to pray to ancestor. Which DIL doesnt pray to ancestor side right? But NO, his step mum carried the baby to pray and hubby PASSED her the baby to pray.
Hypocrite aint he? Intially he said he wont but in the end he passed to her. And they didnt even prepare a gold chain for baby as usually traditional family do that right? No.. they didnt.. And hubby said that its because last minute do. Its like wth, even if last minute if u`re REALLY traditional you should prepare to give even if not married, not celebrating. Its basic isnt it?
Anyway what im fuming is not the gold chain but how i am treated like a bloody fool and bring baby there let them pray and im like invisible... helloooo? Im the baby`s mum and did i say im gonna marry him? Shouldnt i be respected? Go figure...
When go home, i told mum to wear the nice nice dress for girl girl as we going to restuarant with close relatives to celebrate 1 mth. Then my mum keep on say me and as i was very angry earlier, i shouted why you all cant respect me as a mum. Then went into room and cry..
But after that i picked up myself and went for the dinner anyway.. Anyway to even write out what happen really make me fume till very high now.. hais
Anyway moving on to pictures..
Rislin 1mth Cake package.. in the end i give hubby put his surname cause he treated mi real well but above have to happen.. hais
Adorable Rislin at 1 mth
Ignore my fats -.-
Rislin`s 1 Mth Cake
Me & Rislin
Me & my darling cousin sis
Whole Group =)
her sweet memory was written @ 12:42 PM
