Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Who taps the baby to sleep?
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her sweet memory was written @ 5:50 AM
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her sweet memory was written @ 5:50 AMSunday, May 8, 2011
Happy Mothers Day
Sigh, being a mum really teaches me alot of things. What i learnt was to push myself a zillion times beyond exhaustion level, even if i am. To grow another few more eyes out, as i need to attend to both Rislin and Liris. I do admit i do get guilty and the guilt level hangs on me for very long when Liris gets sooooooo cranky that leaving me almost no time for Rislin. So she is pretty much playing with herself at home and is "wasting her time away". I thought of putting her at the playgroup but i really feel that its a waste of money $100+ per month, although i dont deny that it would be better to get her socialised. But me as a SAHM. I need to be mindful of my pocket and what i spend. Sometimes i dont mind spending example like 100+ for a kitchen set for her. But that is because she can play for years as we know kids like to pretend play. But a playgroup primarily is play and its 100+ per month. Im not sure of how im going to walk down this motherhood as i feel more and more stressful in terms of family and taking care of them alone. I dont mind and have taken in my stride of taking care of them alone. But i really detest it when my parents act like they care for my kids but in actual fact, they are only there to "play".
her sweet memory was written @ 6:39 AMFriday, May 6, 2011
My first.......
I was very nervous when i made my way there as my lovely husband offered to help take care of Liris while i went for my brazilian waxing. So i quickly went out after i settled Liris to sleep. As i walked the steps up to the place, I was kinda scared and wanted to chicken out by running away! After i changed into the "skirt" for the bottom half i started to regret but im on the road of no regrets! When the waxer/therapist (Depending on how you would like to call her), put the hot wax on my girl parts, im like oh thats really warm or hot but not to the point of scalding.(im scare of hot stuff). Then when she pulled it off, im like OH MY GAWD.. It hurt me soooo bad!! My waxer say that its due to my constant shaving and my hair not long enough. While she was pulling off the wax, i was constantly sweating so much in a aircon room because it hurt so much!! My face was also very pale and i can swear that time passes so slowly at that time. I was sooooooooo scared each time she placed the wax on me. And you thought that for a mum who gone through natural labour without/minimum drugs would be telling you that it hurt so much. I swear im not kidding when i said that it hurt as much as labour each time she pull out the wax. Maybe its due to my hair length as it was about 1/4 of an inch and also my years of shaving that make the hair thick. So, when it was done, i was VERY relieved. My girl parts were very sore too.It remained swollen and might be inflamed as it has been few hours :( If its still swollen i will have to see a doctor tomorrow. oh god bless me..
her sweet memory was written @ 9:02 AMMonday, May 2, 2011
Inconsiderate people at nursing room?
Previously I was waiting for a good at least 15mins to 25mins to finally feed Liris.. When the person open the door, surprise oh surprise, one hand holding a milk bottle of water and another hand holding a milk bottle of milk. The husband was holding the baby. I knocked the door once and said "do u mind if I feed my baby", no answer so I thought they were breastfeeding.. Second time after being pek chek in waiting and can hear loud bouts of baby crying loudly in long period of time few times which confirmed the person inside is not breastfeeding. I don't understand why must they misuse the room? If they want to use fine.. Can't they just open the door instead of locking the door and let people use it because they are not the only one in the world having kids - Posted using BlogPress from my iPhone
her sweet memory was written @ 2:59 AMSunday, May 1, 2011
Embarrasing moments?
I had this experience again.. I was shopping inside while rislin was drinking her drink when I was looking at some products. Then suddenly I hear a "boom", then I realized that she dropped her drink. Feeling very guilty and embarrassed after saying "oh gosh", i quickly bend down and pick up the cup and cap, proceeding to throw, as it happened near the counter. All the staff witness it. But all the staff started having black face and kept pointing at us and say the one with the stroller poured out the drink. As horrible as I felt enough, the two times that I went back there as Hubby and ris was there, they kept pointing and saying the same thing. I mean I really didn't purposely spill the drink and the floor was tile using the mop two times was enough to clean it.. But the way they embarrassed me was horrifying.. I always visit that shop to buy things from them but after this time I will stop patronizing them because I was really embarrassed way more than enough..and its not just one person doing it, it's 3 staff.. That reminds me of another incident at the food court. Rislin accidentally upset the bowl of soup and I used all the tissue I had to stop it from dripping down. In the process of it spilled it even spilled on my leg. But thankfully the floor only have few drips. Then when the aunty in her 60s came and clean started cursing and scolding me. Seeing how aged she is, I didn't bother to retort. I really don't understand why would people react like this. I know they are frustrated in working but is it right to take in at potential customers or even customers when they accidentally upset things? I mean as in isn't it unfair to others? When you work in a job either u suck it up and work or you quit. Oh FYI I worked in service line for about 6years and have never once vented on a customer. I believe in controlling. As much as i empathize with her but its the hard truth that since you want to work(Its either you are forced or your choice) it's either you suck it up or quit. Am I wrong in saying that? Needless to say I'm fed up yet they make me feel more than worst for spilling it and even the soup not even my fault sigh - Posted using BlogPress from my iPhone
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